Understanding the Root Cause, Not Just the Pattern
I help my clients understand what happened to them, why it happened, and how to build a life where it doesn't happen again.
For twenty years, I lived inside a pattern I couldn’t name. Different relationships, different people, the same slow erosion of trusting myself. This page isn’t the whole story — some of it isn’t mine to share publicly — but it’s the part I’m glad to tell you.
What I Bring to This Work
I am a Certified Executive Coach through the Center for Executive Coaching, having fulfilled the full International Coaching Federation (ICF) Level 2 Training requirements — including 125 hours of core competency training, completion of an ICF mentor coaching program, and passing an oral final exam. My specialization in narcissistic abuse recovery comes from extensive independent study and training in the field, combined with over twenty years of personal, lived experience navigating and healing from narcissistic abuse myself.
20+
Years of Lived Experience
Two decades navigating and healing from narcissistic abuse myself — not just studied from the outside.
125
Hours of Core Competency Training
ICF Level 2 certified through the Center for Executive Coaching, including a full mentor coaching program and oral exam.
100%
Confidential & Judgment-Free
A space built specifically for people who’ve been told they’re overreacting — where you won’t be again.
Why work with me
Choosing to work with me means choosing someone who understands this from both sides — as a certified coach, and as a survivor who lived it for twenty years before I fully understood what I’d lived through. My approach is built on the Why & What Method: understanding not just what happened, but why it happened and why you were vulnerable to it, so you can actually heal the root, not just escape one relationship. I stay current with trauma-informed coaching practices and attachment research, and I approach every session with compassion, no judgment, and a deep respect for wherever you are in your own process.